As a friendly suggestion, ask your student about what we do in class together. I always encourage them to share with parents what we are doing. For those of you with students in PK through 1st Grade, ask them about Tucker Turtle. It is a way for them to cope with anger. For those of you with students in 2nd through 5th Grades, ask them about Conflict Resolution, Bullying.
One of my goals with our students has been to help them learn to deal with situations on their own (except if someone is being harmed). This helps promote independence, self-esteem. It decreases tattling, and the perceived need to keep the conflict going.